Hi guys and gals. I am writing to ask for some help from anyone that is skilled in box making and would not mind helping me find a pattern. As most know I have IV Lung Cancer which has metasted to many organs and recently to the brain. While I DO NOT expect to die now I still have to prepare so that my family won't have to if I should. As such, my wife and kids are young and time would only tell if they would stay here where we now live or have to go home. Her desire is to keep me where they are and so is mine. With that being said I want to make my own Urn. Not looking for fancy but am looking for an elegant, beautiful desing that would not be an eye sore. I really want to make it with multiple wood grains but have yet to have done anything like that. But design is the key and of course with my health now ease is always a good thing. This is a tall order I understand and the help would only be for me. I would not share or use it for anything else and would be willing to pay for the right design. So if anyone has done one of these, and is willing to help me, please drop me a PM and we can go from there. BUT PLEASE FOLKS DON't THINK I've LOST MY FAITH.... just something I have to address as a family man.