Looks great!
I would suggest you start adding a draft to your text. It will beef up the bottom of your letters and give the bit a path where it is less likely to chip away at the top part of the text.
As for staining without getting on letters...you might stain it all and then GENTLY sand the top of the letters. Someone else, may have a better idea.
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